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Beginnings

Why You Like Him More Than He Likes You

You choose (and stay with) people who are not equally invested in you because you don't love yourself enough to not settle for breadcrumbs (aka casual).

Oct 30 · 2 min read >

Don’t Make this Fatal Dating Mistake

When it comes to dating - giving more does not necessarily result in someone liking you more. In fact, it can have the opposite effect. Let me explain.

Jul 8 · 3 min read >

How to Date Someone Who Has an Avoidant Attachment Style

Have you ever started dating someone, and after a romantic weekend together, POOF he disappears?

Jun 12 · 5 min read >

How Do You Like Me Now?

Go through the fire with me. I’ll hold your hand. We’ll dance through the pain and rise through the flame.

Nov 22 · 2 min read >

RENEW Breakup Bootcamp – May 1-4, 2020 – Upstate NY

Bridging the gap between science and spirituality, RENEW will immerse you in a program designed to release old patterns and rewire your subconscious mind. It's time to move forward.

Jul 25 · 52 sec read >

The Death of a Pattern

We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy - there's no real risk. Unavailable people can hurt your ego, but they can’t hurt your soul.

Jul 4 · 4 min read >

The Real Reason I Chose Unavailable Men

if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing what I was doing: avoiding true intimacy because of fear, recreating situations that mirror the emotions of your childhood, and choosing partners with an impossible future...

Apr 23 · 3 min read >

Why The Myth of the Soulmate is Killing Your Romantic Destiny

Ah, the soul mate—the perpetuating romantic myth that's still chugging along against all odds, literally.  Assuming your soulmate is set at birth, is roughly in the same age bracket, and the love is recognizable at first sight, mathematical estimates indicate that your chances of finding your soulmate is only 1 in 10,000...

Jan 18 · 3 min read >

How I Rewired My Brain To Attract Guys That Were Good For Me

In the past, my romantic life was defined by a pattern of short-lived romances that ended in disaster. Why? I habitually fell head over heels for guys who were emotionally unavailable, and I ran for the hills when an available guy wanted to be serious....

Nov 13 · 4 min read >

Just Because He Likes You, Doesn’t Mean He Wants to Be With You

“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and last weekend he cooked me the most romantic dinner. But he’s still figuring out what he wants…” My friend Michelle has been falling for a guy named Mike, and she wants a relationship, but...

Jun 18 · 3 min read >

Will You Dare Love Like This?

Do you know what love is? I’ve spent my entire life seeking it, yearning for it, recovering from it.. At a young age, I learned that love was something that had to be earned.  I hoped that my achievements would earn the love I yearned...

Jun 5 · 3 min read >

How to Date Someone With an Anxious Attachment Style

You wake up to 15 missed calls and an assault of text messages escalating from “Hey what are you up to?” to complete hatred “I don’t believe you’re ignoring me you f*cking as*hole!” Chances are, you're dating someone with an anxious attachment style. Here's how...

Apr 11 · 3 min read >

The Science Behind a Perfect Online Dating Profile

Want to know the top tips on creating a perfect online dating profile? First of all, don't use this word...

Dec 19 · 1 min read >

How to Court a Woman

If you are a man who wants a serious, committed relationship, but date after date, fling after fling, are not getting closer to our relationship goal - this one's for you.

Nov 28 · 5 min read >

How To Win at Dating

Sex and the City LIED to an entire generation of women. Casual sex is great for some, but has major consequences for many. I don't know about you, but I cannot compartmentalize sport fucking and love making.

Aug 27 · 6 min read >

The Latest Trend in Dating: Benching

Maybe all this benching is an indicator that hey, you may very well not be ready to play the field yet.

Jun 14 · 3 min read >

Why Modern Relationships Are Falling Apart – Contributed Article

When the excitement fades, we discover nobody ever prepared us for the mundane. We don’t believe in the beauty of predictability because we’re too blinded by the thrill of adventure.

Feb 10 · 3 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man

Do you know the difference between dating a European man versus an American man? If not, read up!

Dec 21 · 4 min read >

The One Thing Getting In The Way of Love – Your Attachment Style

If you are not getting the relationship outcomes you want, there may be one thing that’s getting in your way of happily ever after. Your attachment style. Our attachment system is a mechanism in our brain responsible for tracking and monitoring the safety and availability...

Dec 11 · 4 min read >

This is a Love Story

The beginning of love stories do not start when two people meet. At least, not ones of the soul-mate kind. I believe that energy never dies, it just takes different forms.

Nov 15 · 6 min read >

Conscious Unsingle-ing

Building a foundation for a potential relationship begins first and foremost with a choice. A process I coin as conscious unsingle-ing.

Sep 30 · 2 min read >

6 Lessons Learned at Burning Man

If you asked me a year ago if there’d ever be a day where I would be sporting LED light clothing braving dust storms in the middle of a desert - all while not having washed my hair for a week, I would have laughed.

Sep 17 · 1 min read >

The 3 Mating Drives That Cause Love

You’re not in love, your brain is just experiencing a surge of dopamine. There are three mating drives in the brain that intertwine to create love.

Jul 1 · 2 min read >

How To Attract Anyone

The secret to attraction isn't about your looks, it's about mastering this one thing...

Jun 18 · 2 min read >

How Your Attachment Style Determines Your Love Life

Do you know what your attachment style is? How we emotionally bond to others is determined by the first years of life, and it can explain why your relationships are failing.

Apr 23 · 2 min read >

Single. Alpha. Female.

Why are there an abundance of highly successful, go-getting, independent women who although on paper look like the perfect catch, can’t seem to find a suitable life partner?

Mar 9 · 4 min read >

6 Lessons From Dating Like a New Yorker

Dating in New York requires adjusting to a whole new set of norms. Don’t hate the player, don’t hate the game... the rules are just different here. Here are some tips on how to date like a New Yorker.

Feb 12 · 4 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a Boy vs a Man

Do you know the difference between dating a boy versus dating a man? If not, read up!

Dec 10 · 3 min read >

Fuck Yes or No – By Mark Manson

The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not...

Dec 9 · 5 min read >

Don’t Reward the Bad Boy

Raise your own bar. And by this, I do not mean your expectations – rather, your standards for respect.

Nov 26 · 4 min read >

How a Sociopath Duped Me Online

My intuition failed me. He was that good. Or perhaps, I was that naïve.

Nov 4 · 4 min read >

I Got Rejected… And This is What Happened

Don’t give so much power to a person who was never meant to be in the permanent cast of your life story. Go out there, love fully. Love generously. Love with reckless abandon. Because that's how you create magic. That's how you create a life...

Jun 11 · 3 min read >

He Likes Me… Not

I am a dreamer. I am a storyteller. I believe in magic. I believe that it's possible to create a love so beautiful it can change the world. I'm not ever going to stop believing that, and I have faith that one day, it will...

Jun 10 · 2 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating an Asian Guy vs a Caucasian Guy

There are many myths and stereotypes when it comes to dating asian guys. Some are completely outlandish and some are, well, a little more spot on.

Jun 1 · 5 min read >

Chemistry Does Not Guarantee Compatibility

Newsflash - it's not your heart talking to you. It's your increased levels of oxytocin - that sneaky, feel-good, bonding hormone that is released when you have sex.

May 15 · 3 min read >