The Rise of Happy, Single Women: A reason why men need to upgrade their relationship skills

The rise of lonely, single men. Women are raising their standards and that's bad news bears for those lacking in relationship skills.

Sep 29 · 2 min read >

5 Signs You’re Being Love Bombed By Your Partner

Love bombing is the use of excessive affection, grand gestures, and promises for the future as a manipulation tactic. But right when you’re feeling high from all the love and attention, it’s followed by a period of withdrawal, avoidance, or abuse.

Mar 8 · 3 min read >

The 5 Most Asked Questions About Dating That Can Help You Find Love

Here are the most asked questions about dating and the answers might change your life (and relationship status).

Jan 7 · 1 min read >

How To Go From Casual to a Committed Relationship

Someone can always be hotter, richer or smarter than you. While someone can always out ego you, they can't out 'soul' you. Know the difference?

Oct 26 · 1 min read >

How to Fix Broken Boundaries

Feel resentment often? Overwhelmed with guilt when you say no? This is due to a broken boundary system that causes us to over-give, over-please, and over-function as the cost to our well-being.

Sep 29 · 1 min read >

4 Tips To Create Healthy Relationship Patterns

Whether you’ve joined the 5 million Canadians who’ve found themselves suddenly single during the pandemic, or thriving in a relationship, one thing is for certain - healthy relationship patterns are hard to form, and our patterns follow us wherever we go. Our patterns, from who...

Apr 14 · 3 min read >

You’ll “Just Know” When You Meet the One is Bullsh*t

My track record doesn’t set me up to give a lot of merit to my ‘just know’ meter.

Jan 24 · 2 min read >

A ‘Fuck Yes’ Relationship Is Not Love – By Damien Bohler

Where are all the good men and good women? They are probably right in front of you refusing to deal the drugs you are so used to getting high on.

Dec 22 · 2 min read >

Pick Up Lines – Do They Work?

Let's be honest, unless you're oozing George Clooney vibes, the woman you're approaching might not lock eyes with you and have her soul mate alarm bells start ringing.

Dec 16 · 2 min read >

Just My Type is now Heart Hackers Club

After a decade of being Just My Type, I'm excited to announce our rebrand to Heart Hackers Club!

Nov 10 · 53 sec read >

Why You Like Him More Than He Likes You

You choose (and stay with) people who are not equally invested in you because you don't love yourself enough to not settle for breadcrumbs (aka casual).

Oct 30 · 3 min read >

Don’t Make this Fatal Dating Mistake

When it comes to dating - giving more does not necessarily result in someone liking you more. In fact, it can have the opposite effect. Let me explain.

Jul 8 · 3 min read >

How to Date Someone Who Has an Avoidant Attachment Style

Have you ever started dating someone, and after a romantic weekend together, POOF he disappears?

Jun 12 · 5 min read >

How Do You Like Me Now?

Go through the fire with me. I’ll hold your hand. We’ll dance through the pain and rise through the flame.

Nov 22 · 2 min read >

RENEW Breakup Bootcamp – May 1-4, 2020 – Upstate NY

Bridging the gap between science and spirituality, RENEW will immerse you in a program designed to release old patterns and rewire your subconscious mind. It's time to move forward.

Jul 25 · 52 sec read >

Unavailable Men: The Death of a Pattern

We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy - there's no real risk. Unavailable people can hurt your ego, but they can’t hurt your soul.

Jul 4 · 4 min read >

The Real Reason I Chose Unavailable Men

if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing what I was doing: avoiding true intimacy because of fear, recreating situations that mirror the emotions of your childhood, and choosing partners with an impossible future...

Apr 23 · 3 min read >

Why The Myth of the Soulmate is Killing Your Romantic Destiny

Ah, the soul mate—the perpetuating romantic myth that's still chugging along against all odds, literally.  Assuming your soulmate is set at birth, is roughly in the same age bracket, and the love is recognizable at first sight, mathematical estimates indicate that your chances of finding your soulmate is only 1 in 10,000...

Jan 18 · 3 min read >

How I Rewired My Brain To Attract Guys That Were Good For Me

In the past, my romantic life was defined by a pattern of short-lived romances that ended in disaster. Why? I habitually fell head over heels for guys who were emotionally unavailable, and I ran for the hills when an available guy wanted to be serious....

Nov 13 · 4 min read >

Just Because He Likes You, Doesn’t Mean He Wants to Be With You

“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and last weekend he cooked me the most romantic dinner. But he’s still figuring out what he wants…” My friend Michelle has been falling for a guy named Mike, and she wants a relationship, but...

Jun 18 · 3 min read >

Will You Dare Love Like This?

Do you know what love is? I’ve spent my entire life seeking it, yearning for it, recovering from it.. At a young age, I learned that love was something that had to be earned.  I hoped that my achievements would earn the love I yearned...

Jun 5 · 3 min read >

How to Date Someone With an Anxious Attachment Style

You wake up to 15 missed calls and an assault of text messages escalating from “Hey what are you up to?” to complete hatred “I don’t believe you’re ignoring me you f*cking as*hole!” Chances are, you're dating someone with an anxious attachment style. Here's how...

Apr 11 · 3 min read >

The Science Behind a Perfect Online Dating Profile

Want to know the top tips on creating a perfect online dating profile? First of all, don't use this word...

Dec 19 · 1 min read >

Courting a Woman? Follow These Important Steps

If you are a man who wants a serious, committed relationship, but date after date, fling after fling, are not getting closer to our relationship goal - this one's for you.

Nov 28 · 5 min read >

How To Win at Dating: 6 Steps to Take

Sex and the City LIED to an entire generation of women. Casual sex is great for some, but has major consequences for many. I don't know about you, but I cannot compartmentalize sport fucking and love making.

Aug 27 · 6 min read >

The Latest Trend in Dating: Benching

Maybe all this benching is an indicator that hey, you may very well not be ready to play the field yet.

Jun 14 · 3 min read >

Why Modern Relationships Are Falling Apart – Contributed Article

When the excitement fades, we discover nobody ever prepared us for the mundane. We don’t believe in the beauty of predictability because we’re too blinded by the thrill of adventure.

Feb 10 · 3 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man

Do you know the difference between dating a European man versus an American man? If not, read up!

Dec 21 · 4 min read >

The One Thing Getting In The Way of Love – Your Attachment Style

If you are not getting the relationship outcomes you want, there may be one thing that’s getting in your way of happily ever after. Your attachment style. Our attachment system is a mechanism in our brain responsible for tracking and monitoring the safety and availability...

Dec 11 · 4 min read >

This is a Love Story

The beginning of love stories do not start when two people meet. At least, not ones of the soul-mate kind. I believe that energy never dies, it just takes different forms.

Nov 15 · 6 min read >

Conscious Unsingle-ing

Building a foundation for a potential relationship begins first and foremost with a choice. A process I coin as conscious unsingle-ing.

Sep 30 · 2 min read >

6 Lessons Learned at Burning Man

If you asked me a year ago if there’d ever be a day where I would be sporting LED light clothing braving dust storms in the middle of a desert - all while not having washed my hair for a week, I would have laughed.

Sep 17 · 1 min read >

The 3 Mating Drives That Cause Love

You’re not in love, your brain is just experiencing a surge of dopamine. There are three mating drives in the brain that intertwine to create love.

Jul 1 · 2 min read >

How To Attract Anyone

The secret to attraction isn't about your looks, it's about mastering this one thing...

Jun 18 · 2 min read >

How Your Attachment Style Determines Your Love Life

Do you know what your attachment style is? How we emotionally bond to others is determined by the first years of life, and it can explain why your relationships are failing.

Apr 23 · 2 min read >