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33 stories by Amy Chan

Just My Type is now Heart Hackers Club

After a decade of being Just My Type, I'm excited to announce our rebrand to Heart Hackers Club!

Nov 10 · 53 sec read >

A Pandemic is Still Not a Reason To Text Your Ex

Take the corona-tinted glasses off and repeat after me. I will not text my ex.

Mar 25 · 3 min read >

Why You Like Him More Than He Likes You

You choose (and stay with) people who are not equally invested in you because you don't love yourself enough...

Oct 30 · 2 min read >

Don’t Make this Fatal Dating Mistake

When it comes to dating - giving more does not necessarily result in someone liking you more. In fact,...

Jul 8 · 3 min read >

How to Date Someone Who Has an Avoidant Attachment Style

Have you ever started dating someone, and after a romantic weekend together, POOF he disappears?

Jun 12 · 5 min read >

Eat, Pray, Eat – My Healing Journey in Bali

Perhaps a curse was to blame for my years of mini romances that never amounted to anything. So I...

May 22 · 5 min read >

Don’t Ask Why, Ask Why The Fuck Not

Launch, iterate later. Perfection is procrastination in disguise. You’re never going to be ready enough.

Apr 7 · 4 min read >

How to Not Lose Your Sh*T When You Get Triggered

Perhaps he didn't text you back, or she forgot to plan the trip that was promised, or your partner...

Feb 12 · 1 min read >

How To Reflect Like a BAWSS

If you don't reflect on the year past, you miss an opportunity for growth. This Year in Review exercise...

Dec 27 · 2 min read >

How Do You Like Me Now?

Go through the fire with me. I’ll hold your hand. We’ll dance through the pain and rise through the...

Nov 22 · 2 min read >

How to Develop Social Mastery

Being magnetic is a skill. From who should pay for the bill to how to engage at a dinner...

Oct 8 · 7 min read >

The Most Surprising Lesson I Learned at Burning Man

Stop chasing. The people and experiences that are meant to be will not require you to catch them.

Sep 6 · 3 min read >

Chasing Unicorns

The ending of one chapter feels scary, but that’s only because there’s many chapters still to be write. You...

Aug 10 · 2 min read >

How to Hack Your Charisma

Do you ever observe charismatic people work a room and wish you could be as magnetic? This article will...

Jul 8 · 4 min read >

The Death of a Pattern

We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy - there's no real risk. Unavailable people can...

Jul 4 · 4 min read >

Heartbreak Catalyzed My Self Discovery – Interview with Mercedes

Mercedes is a millennial woman living in San Francisco who attended Renew’s wellness retreat in December 2017 in Malibu....

Jun 29 · 6 min read >

The Plan That Was Never Yours

The plan consisted of a linear progression of relationship that looked like this: date, get married, have kids, stay...

Jun 20 · 3 min read >

The Wound That Causes You To Over Give

Not all giving is created equal, as there are different roots of “giving”. The gift may appear the same on...

May 15 · 2 min read >

How I Healed from Heartbreak – Interview with Puneet

You are enough exactly as you are. Invest in yourself: work on your mind, listen to your inner voice...

May 13 · 11 min read >

Sorry, I’m Not Sorry

As I started to become more comfortable in my own skin, and more aligned in my values, I realized...

May 9 · 3 min read >

The Real Reason I Chose Unavailable Men

if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing...

Apr 23 · 3 min read >

Seven Practical Steps to Heal After a Breakup

No, you are not going crazy. After a separation, there is a lot going on in the brain, and...

Apr 1 · 7 min read >

Birthday Musings

For the last few years, each birthday I take myself on a date to my fave breakfast spot in...

Feb 18 · 1 min read >

Why The Myth of the Soulmate is Killing Your Romantic Destiny

Ah, the soul mate—the perpetuating romantic myth that’s still chugging along against all odds, literally.  Assuming your soulmate is set at birth, is...

Jan 18 · 3 min read >

Burning Man Packing List and Things You Didn’t Think Of

All the things you need to pack for Burning Man as well as those things you didn't think of...

Jan 6 · 6 min read >

The Lie That Keeps You Single

“I want a relationship. I’m ready to settle down with someone.” Bullshit. I’m calling your bluff and I’m guilty...

Dec 15 · 4 min read >

Calling All Self-Proclaimed Goddesses Back to Earth

Self-proclaimed goddesses – the spiritual bypassing is real. Can we take off the flower crowns and commit to building...

Nov 13 · 1 min read >

How I Rewired My Brain To Attract Guys That Were Good For Me

In the past, my romantic life was defined by a pattern of short-lived romances that ended in disaster. Why?...

Nov 13 · 4 min read >

I Didn’t Transform at Burning Man, But I Did Learn This

It’s that time of year again, where I’m sure your social feeds are inundated with pictures of burning man...

Sep 8 · 5 min read >

Just Because He Likes You, Doesn’t Mean He Wants to Be With You

“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and last weekend he cooked me the most romantic...

Jun 18 · 3 min read >

Will You Dare Love Like This?

Do you know what love is? I’ve spent my entire life seeking it, yearning for it, recovering from it.....

Jun 5 · 3 min read >

Human Evolution Template – A Structure for Living Fulfilled Lives

We all know that in work and business, we need structure, goals and clear vision to get us the...

Oct 10 · 3 min read >