Single. Alpha. Female.

Why are there an abundance of highly successful, go-getting, independent women who although on paper look like the perfect catch, can’t seem to find a suitable life partner?

Mar 9 · 4 min read >

6 Lessons From Dating Like a New Yorker

Dating in New York requires adjusting to a whole new set of norms. Don’t hate the player, don’t hate the game... the rules are just different here. Here are some tips on how to date like a New Yorker.

Feb 12 · 4 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a Boy vs a Man

Do you know the difference between dating a boy versus dating a man? If not, read up!

Dec 10 · 3 min read >

Fuck Yes or No – By Mark Manson

The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not...

Dec 9 · 5 min read >

Don’t Reward the Bad Boy

Raise your own bar. And by this, I do not mean your expectations – rather, your standards for respect.

Nov 26 · 4 min read >

How a Sociopath Duped Me Online

My intuition failed me. He was that good. Or perhaps, I was that naïve.

Nov 4 · 4 min read >

I Got Rejected… And This is What Happened

Don’t give so much power to a person who was never meant to be in the permanent cast of your life story. Go out there, love fully. Love generously. Love with reckless abandon. Because that's how you create magic. That's how you create a life...

Jun 11 · 3 min read >

He Likes Me… Not

I am a dreamer. I am a storyteller. I believe in magic. I believe that it's possible to create a love so beautiful it can change the world. I'm not ever going to stop believing that, and I have faith that one day, it will...

Jun 10 · 2 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating an Asian Guy vs a Caucasian Guy

There are many myths and stereotypes when it comes to dating asian guys. Some are completely outlandish and some are, well, a little more spot on.

Jun 1 · 5 min read >

Chemistry Does Not Guarantee Compatibility

Newsflash - it's not your heart talking to you. It's your increased levels of oxytocin - that sneaky, feel-good, bonding hormone that is released when you have sex.

May 15 · 3 min read >

How To Be a Better Catch in 2015

How can you up your stock value in the dating world to be a better catch this coming year? Here are a few pointers:

Jan 2 · 2 min read >

Who’s Judging Whom?

What it really means when you say "Don't judge me".

Dec 20 · 1 min read >

Don’t Let People Happen to You – Harvey Milk

Says Harvey Milk: Go after her. Fuck, don’t sit there and wait for her to call, go after her because that’s what you should do if you love someone, don’t wait for them to give you a sign cause it might never come, don’t let...

Nov 27 · 52 sec read >

7 Reasons Why You’re Repelling Women

If you are a man looking for a quality gal and seem to be repelling women with your current dating strategy, here are some useful observations.

Nov 13 · 2 min read >

How to Date – An Introduction

They don't teach you about dating, sexual intimacy and relationships in school. Most of the population is learning through trial and error, the media and yes, pornography. So as a columnist who studies and observes relationships, I thought it'd be helpful to share some insight...

Oct 19 · 4 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a Girl vs a Woman

Do you know the difference between dating a girl versus dating a woman? If not, read up!

Sep 12 · 3 min read >

Why I Won’t Date You Again

Since a little dating 101 is never a bad thing, I’m going to share a few tips and pointers for the bachelors out there.

Aug 11 · 1 min read >

Courage to Commit

Nothing great in life resulted from being passive. Be brave enough to commit - whether that be to a person, a passion or a plan.

Aug 3 · 32 sec read >


Welcome to the launch of my new site. Here's a little note from me to you.

Jun 29 · 41 sec read >

6 Sure Signs He Likes You

Here are 6 ways to tell if a guy likes you. If he doesn't do these things, chances are, he's just "not that into you."

May 29 · 1 min read >

3 Dating Do’s and Don’ts

Here are some tips to the bachelors out there on some dating Do’s and Dont’s.

Apr 10 · 1 min read >

Don’t Waste Your Headspace on Unavailable Men

The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands.

Apr 3 · 3 min read >

Here’s to Love

My fellow dreamers, remember that you will meet many people in your lifetime that you can create love with. But it's a matter of finding someone who is willing to take that risk with you. Here's to love...

Mar 3 · 1 min read >

A Love Note

Call me crazy. Call me a dreamer. But I believe in creating a love so powerful it can change the world.

Jan 15 · 53 sec read >

Girls Become Women

The media does a grand job of reinforcing this culture and perception of “lack of”, and if you throw some daddy issues into the mix, you end up with girls who have some serious self-worth and identity issues.

Jan 13 · 2 min read >

Friends With Benefits Enough?

My 'Ask Amy' column as seen on the 24 Hours Newspaper. Dear Amy, I am 30 and I am looking for a serious partner. A male friend of mine seems to really like me. He frequently sends me texts/facebook messages, calls occasionaly, spends time with...

Dec 20 · 1 min read >

The Dating Game

Being back in the dating scene again in recent months, I’ve been reminded of the delicate dance that occurs upon meeting a new love interest. The rush of excitement is followed by panic and questions such as: Should I initiate contact first? How many hours/days...

Dec 7 · 2 min read >

Is a relationship salvageable after cheating?

Cheating doesn’t just happen by accident. Instead, it is really the end result of a series of seemingly harmless decisions. Many steps and choices are made before the actual event occurs.

Jun 10 · 1 min read >

The Dopamine Daze

When deep in the throes of love, in between the sleepless nights, heart palpitations and whirling butterflies, it is hard to imagine that such a high will ever fade. "This one's different," you reassure yourself.  And maybe it is. But for many, that intense high when...

Apr 27 · 2 min read >

My Very Own, Choose Your Own Adventure Book

Your twenties are such a whimsical time of your life. Your twenties marks the decade where you will endure your many firsts –your first real job, first love, first home, first reality check…

Aug 25 · 2 min read >

Chemical Cocktail

“We get caught up with the butterflies and rapid heart beat of “falling in love” that we sometimes forget what’s even more important….Do you like the person?” Those are words that my friend Matt Clayton expressed while we were discussing what some can argue as...

Aug 17 · 3 min read >