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Amy Chan

54 stories by Amy Chan

Unavailable Men: The Death of a Pattern

We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy - there's no real risk. Unavailable people can...

Jul 4 · 4 min read >

Heartbreak Catalyzed My Self Discovery – Interview with Mercedes

Mercedes is a millennial woman living in San Francisco who attended Renew’s wellness retreat in December 2017 in Malibu....

Jun 29 · 6 min read >

The Plan That Was Never Yours

The plan consisted of a linear progression of relationship that looked like this: date, get married, have kids, stay...

Jun 20 · 3 min read >

The Wound That Causes You To Over Give

Not all giving is created equal, as there are different roots of “giving”. The gift may appear the same on...

May 15 · 2 min read >

How I Healed from Heartbreak – Interview with Puneet

You are enough exactly as you are. Invest in yourself: work on your mind, listen to your inner voice...

May 13 · 11 min read >

Sorry, I’m Not Sorry

As I started to become more comfortable in my own skin, and more aligned in my values, I realized...

May 9 · 3 min read >

The Real Reason I Chose Unavailable Men

if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing...

Apr 23 · 3 min read >

Seven Practical Steps to Heal After a Breakup

No, you are not going crazy. After a separation, there is a lot going on in the brain, and...

Apr 1 · 7 min read >

Birthday Musings

For the last few years, each birthday I take myself on a date to my fave breakfast spot in...

Feb 18 · 1 min read >

Why The Myth of the Soulmate is Killing Your Romantic Destiny

Ah, the soul mate—the perpetuating romantic myth that’s still chugging along against all odds, literally.  Assuming your soulmate is set at birth, is...

Jan 18 · 3 min read >

Burning Man Packing List and Things You Didn’t Think Of

All the things you need to pack for Burning Man as well as those things you didn't think of...

Jan 6 · 6 min read >

The Lie That Keeps You Single

“I want a relationship. I’m ready to settle down with someone.” Bullshit. I’m calling your bluff and I’m guilty...

Dec 15 · 4 min read >

Calling All Self-Proclaimed Goddesses Back to Earth

Self-proclaimed goddesses – the spiritual bypassing is real. Can we take off the flower crowns and commit to building...

Nov 13 · 1 min read >

How I Rewired My Brain To Attract Guys That Were Good For Me

In the past, my romantic life was defined by a pattern of short-lived romances that ended in disaster. Why?...

Nov 13 · 4 min read >

I Didn’t Transform at Burning Man, But I Did Learn This

It’s that time of year again, where I’m sure your social feeds are inundated with pictures of burning man...

Sep 8 · 5 min read >

Just Because He Likes You, Doesn’t Mean He Wants to Be With You

“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and last weekend he cooked me the most romantic...

Jun 18 · 3 min read >

Will You Dare Love Like This?

Do you know what love is? I’ve spent my entire life seeking it, yearning for it, recovering from it.....

Jun 5 · 3 min read >

Human Evolution Template – A Structure for Living Fulfilled Lives

We all know that in work and business, we need structure, goals and clear vision to get us the...

Oct 10 · 3 min read >