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Forget Valentine’s Day, Here’s How to Create a Love That Lasts

Loving yourself is not a destination. Loving yourself is a muscle you build. When we approach self-love as a...

Feb 13 · 4 min read >

Why The Myth of the Soulmate is Killing Your Romantic Destiny

Ah, the soul mate—the perpetuating romantic myth that’s still chugging along against all odds, literally.  Assuming your soulmate is set at birth, is...

Jan 18 · 3 min read >

Burning Man Packing List and Things You Didn’t Think Of

All the things you need to pack for Burning Man as well as those things you didn't think of...

Jan 6 · 6 min read >

The Lie That Keeps You Single

“I want a relationship. I’m ready to settle down with someone.” Bullshit. I’m calling your bluff and I’m guilty...

Dec 15 · 4 min read >

Calling All Self-Proclaimed Goddesses Back to Earth

Self-proclaimed goddesses – the spiritual bypassing is real. Can we take off the flower crowns and commit to building...

Nov 13 · 1 min read >

How I Rewired My Brain To Attract Guys That Were Good For Me

In the past, my romantic life was defined by a pattern of short-lived romances that ended in disaster. Why?...

Nov 13 · 4 min read >

I Didn’t Transform at Burning Man, But I Did Learn This

It’s that time of year again, where I’m sure your social feeds are inundated with pictures of burning man...

Sep 8 · 5 min read >

Just Because He Likes You, Doesn’t Mean He Wants to Be With You

“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and last weekend he cooked me the most romantic...

Jun 18 · 3 min read >

Will You Dare Love Like This?

Do you know what love is? I’ve spent my entire life seeking it, yearning for it, recovering from it.....

Jun 5 · 3 min read >

The One Thing My Mom Taught Me That You Need to Know

Along the journey, you will feel like quitting, you will feel disenfranchised, you will feel uncomfortable, you will feel...

May 13 · 3 min read >

Why You Need to Make This Decision… Now

Here's to our commitment to constantly evolve, to have the courage to edit our lives when it's veering off...

Apr 25 · 1 min read >

How to Date Someone With an Anxious Attachment Style

You wake up to 15 missed calls and an assault of text messages escalating from “Hey what are you...

Apr 11 · 3 min read >

Are You Guilty of Doing This on Social Media?

Are you a responsible consumer of media? Do you participate in the social sharing of facts or do you...

Apr 4 · 2 min read >

5 Life Lessons To Create Joy

Sometimes the most valuable, life changing lessons and opportunities for growth come disguised in the ugliest of packages.

Feb 18 · 1 min read >

The Most Profound Spiritual Experience of My Life

Love is not a limited resource. You can have many different kinds of love, with different people. One is...

Jan 23 · 4 min read >

11 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself This New Year

It’s that time of year where we swear to ourselves that we’ll finally hit the gym, stop eating carbs...

Dec 26 · 5 min read >

The Science Behind a Perfect Online Dating Profile

Want to know the top tips on creating a perfect online dating profile? First of all, don't use this...

Dec 19 · 1 min read >

How to Court a Woman

If you are a man who wants a serious, committed relationship, but date after date, fling after fling, are...

Nov 28 · 5 min read >

Why I Won’t Defriend You For Voting Trump

On November 9th, I felt overwhelmed with emotion with the news of the election. As I walked down the streets...

Nov 11 · 6 min read >

Human Evolution Template – A Structure for Living Fulfilled Lives

We all know that in work and business, we need structure, goals and clear vision to get us the...

Oct 10 · 3 min read >

How To Decompress After Burning Man

For those acclimating back to reality after the Burn... here's some sage advice on setting back to reality. And...

Sep 9 · 1 min read >

Reflections From the Dust – Lessons Learned at Burning Man

During Burning Man, opportunities kept presenting itself to enable me to turn existing seeds of knowledge into practice. It...

Sep 7 · 4 min read >

How To Win at Dating

Sex and the City LIED to an entire generation of women. Casual sex is great for some, but has...

Aug 27 · 6 min read >

The Latest Trend in Dating: Benching

Maybe all this benching is an indicator that hey, you may very well not be ready to play the...

Jun 14 · 3 min read >

When To State Your Boundaries

When we are out of integrity with how we behave and how we allow people to treat us, we...

Mar 25 · 1 min read >

The Science Behind Breaking Up

Going through a breakup or a heartache? Here's the science behind why your heart aches and how to get...

Mar 20 · 5 min read >

Let Your Heart Be Broken – Contributed Post

This business of being human will break our fucking hearts. It’s messy and complicated and oh-so-terribly sad at times....

Feb 19 · 2 min read >

Why Modern Relationships Are Falling Apart – Contributed Article

When the excitement fades, we discover nobody ever prepared us for the mundane. We don’t believe in the beauty...

Feb 10 · 3 min read >

What Posting Inspirational Quotes Really Says About You

In between “Everything happens for a reason” and “Be fearless” lies real life, which is not perfect, Valencia filtered...

Jan 14 · 3 min read >

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man

Do you know the difference between dating a European man versus an American man? If not, read up!

Dec 21 · 4 min read >

The One Thing Getting In The Way of Love – Your Attachment Style

If you are not getting the relationship outcomes you want, there may be one thing that’s getting in your...

Dec 11 · 4 min read >

How to Spark Intimacy and Desire

"There's a lot of people you can love. There's not that many people you can build a life with."...

Nov 27 · 2 min read >

This is a Love Story

The beginning of love stories do not start when two people meet. At least, not ones of the soul-mate...

Nov 15 · 6 min read >

20 Things I’d Tell My 20 Year Old Self

If I were to have a frank tête-à-tête with my 20 year old self, here’s what I’d tell her:

Nov 10 · 1 min read >

The 7 Things That Change in Your 30’s

In your thirties, you stop acting, and just start being. That insecurity that so badly tries to receive approval...

Oct 28 · 3 min read >

A Letter to a Friend Going Through Heartbreak

We must not give away our power, our light and not let any of the past harm the future....

Oct 7 · 1 min read >